The Frugal Dater

You know when somebody’s birthday comes around that you never know what to get them?

Well I’ve come across a GREAT idea that’s not only fun but doesn’t break the bank (and could actually make the bank – but don’t count on it).

First start off at the dollar store or discount and get a funny card ( it’s hard to find in there sometimes through all the crap that’s left over in there but paying a buck vs paying up to $6) There’s a reason that all the card companies are going out of business these days….

The last time we came up with a top 10 list for cheep and free date ideas for winter it was our most popular post. So for spring we decided to do  it again – and not the same list that you you’ve seen everywhere else with things like picnics and going to the movies.

So break out a notepad and get ready to have some frugal fun!!. And if you like this this please share it with others and help us out by supporting our sponsers.

Wii Rock!! Break out that video game console, especially with games like Guitar Hero and Rock Band. These make a great date especially if you’re meeting a new circle of friends.

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When you’re reading through on-line profiles through the various dating sites, they all seem to fall into one of 7 types of online daters.

1. The Pimp

Do you have pictures on your profile that have less then full clothing?

Do those pictures show off either 1) the latest fashion trends or 2) all the hard work that you’ve put in at the gym?

Do you have a sexy email reply alway ready for someone that writes you or just for someone that catches your eye?

This is you!

Going dutch is what it’s called. Halfing the check at the restaurant is what it’s all about.

For a guy who’s not done it before, and is interested in a second date just thinking about asking here to split the bill with you can leave you a nervous wreck.
When would  you actually bring up this topic?
Before the date?
Before the dessert?
After the small talk and you’ve found out that both of you have a job?

It definitely can be a touchy subject if you don’t bring it up correctly. It actually could be one of those make or break points in the fragile beginnings of a new relationship.

With valentines day coming up you might be looking for that perfect song to download for that special someone or to request on the radio (do people even do that anymore?)

I went out and tried to make a list of all the songs about girls that I could find starting with the ones I knew right off the bat first and then looking up more from there.

Here on this page I’ve only included some of the more common names (especially those of ladies I’ve gone out with and had a mad crush on. )

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It’s that time of year again, when daters show their affection for each other in lavish displays of gifts and goodies.

We’re half-way through January and the red heart displays are out all over the various stores however if you look past the main pre-packed displays and shop at one or two places, then you can put together your own gift package for much less.

Now if you’re past the first or second date with the girl you’re seeing then a valentines day showering of love is a must. The worst part is that retailers know it and are ready for you to open up your wallet.

This is not the time for some hand made trinket however, you’re not a 3rd grader bringing home a paper heart to mom.

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Let’s face it, going out to each is just a part of the dating game. And if you’re not a coupon person then there’s still ways to save without anyone knowing (it just might take a little planning before hand).

If you know your favorite restaurants and they’re part of big chains that offer gift cards then there’s ways to save up to 20% in buying unwanted gift cards.

Now if you want to compound these savings then you’ll want to think about lunch dates instead of dinner dates. I’ve seen certain restaurants where the appetizer jump a dollar to three dollars each after the lunch hours (usually ending around 4pm but you have to check with each restaurant individually).

Relationships these days seem to always have some role being played by text messages. The question comes down to are text messages helping or hurting the relationship?

Men & women also use (and interpret) text messaging differently.

According to different researchers, men seem to find text messaging a way to go slowy into a relationship without having to commit totally emotionally – therefore leaving the pain of rejection to a mere sting.

Arguments are easier to get into

There’s no tone or real rhythm with a text message – and sometimes through no fault of yours there can be a delay of messages or double messages which appear hours or a day later. This can cause

Have you noticed lately that some of the free online dating sites are now offering paid upgrades to show that you’re serious? Well I’m going to call a spade a spade, they’re calling it being a “featured” member. I read in an article or two that the creator of Plenty of Fish, Marcus, was getting upset that he was loosing out on money because he was offering his site for free but every other dating site had some kind of pay for play option. Also that he had one of the biggest user bases. So all the sudden out of nowhere there started to be these yellow dots appearing on people’s profiles.

What they said in the Forums

If you read in the forums, most of the people (actually women) who got this upgraded status in the beginning as “Featured” members, it was given to them for free.  Some didn’t even want it when they gave it to them.

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Sometimes it’s the gifts that cost nothing (and come from the heart) that can mean a whole lot more when trying to build a relationship then something semi-expensive that you ran out and got at the last minute.

We found one of those things for you, a pet safety pack from the ASPCA. It’s mainly a sticker to place on your window, however it tells emergancy workers that there are more then just people to save in case of fire or natural disaster.